tit-for-tat is not a defense, you ignore it or report it, you do not "throw it back at him" - that goes for everyone
Well I didn't feel the need, I'd only complain to a mod if I thought it serious enough, this wasn't, he was just being rude....
You missed the bit where I did I guess.
Seems so, I don't know if you complained about the other posters behaviour prior to this, if so it was before his posts to me, but even if that were the case that would be more reason to pull him up about this instead of me,
Yet even though he was blatantly rude nothing was said or done to him?,
how is this fair?
Or is it because I only quoted your bit in it. The last post. It's just how I draw the line. I'm not going to go back through I don't know how many pages and try to define where this went off the rails between you two.
Again news to me, this is the first time I've seen you complain about this,
Were any of them undeserved?
Yes, all of them, thats why they never went anywhere,
I mean, you are just people correct?
And its fair to understand that some people don't always play fair, mods are not immuned, you are expected to be fair but it doesn't always work that way, so personal interest creeps in and they start abusing what was trusted to them...
It can happen
And if you feel singled out it may only be because you were the latest into whatever mess and I was only responding to the end of it before it escalated further.
Well to be fair, in light of your previous actions how can I not feel "singled out"?
I see you jumping on a disproportionate of my posts without valid cause,
so you give the impression of just looking for an excuse,
Which this example seems to show, fine complain about me throwing his comment back at him, but I would not have had anything to throw back if he had not been rude also, but yet again you only complain to me,
How does this in anyway look fair?
I tend to let things go too long if anything, hoping sense prevails, it rarely does. In that case I share some of the blame. But I also can't be here 24/7 reading every word and disciplining every little spat. Nor do I think it should really be necessary.
It wasn't, I made no complaint, and I had no issue with the rest of the posts, he posted, just his last post when he attempted to be rude,
But I think I'm fair. If you feel wronged PM me with your side and links. I can admit where I make mistakes. If you think I'm still biased before or after that take it to another moderator via PM. I've said before that option of appeal is open to anyone.
How can you really think you are being fair?, if you really don't realize what you are doing here maybe you shouldn't be a mod?
And if you where the kind of person to act on bias as a mod would it make sense for me to come to you?
You say fair but your actions say otherwise, if I was to complain about a mods behaviour it would not be to the mods concerned,