As I see it, The jump limit is just that - a limit. It is not advisable to make a jump within that range, but you can certainly jump anywhere beyond that limit. Navigators would have (or obtain) data on the size of a giant star and could exit jump anywhere within its habitable zone, as this is automatically beyond the tidal jump limit.
If you want to use Peter's figures, you could perhaps 'anchor' the tidal stress like this (assuming I've done my sums right):
Using a standard test body comprising a rigid rod of length 25 metres (experimental TL9 ship length?) arranged radially in a G-field, the tidal force between the ends will be 1 pico-g at a range of about 99 diameters from Earth. This could replace Peter's 'pico-ess' for the tidal model.
The formula I used here is
Delta-a = 2GML/D^3
Where delta a is the acceleration difference between rod ends, G is the gravitational constant, M is the mass of the planet, L is the length of the test body, and D is the distance of the test body from the planet centre.
All in SI units. (I can't be bothered figuring it all out in Traveller units).
If you find I've cocked the maths up, just change the test body length or something, and post a correction.
As I understand it, the tidal force for neutron stars and black holes depends only on the mass. You could approach to within a few thousand km of a 5 solar mass body before the tidal force rivalled atmospheric stresses. I wouldn't like to guess what the radiation levels would be at that distance though!